Wow… I cannot even believe the new I heard today. Still, 11 hours later, I still cannot believe what I was told this morning.
Let’s just pick up from yesterday shall we? So yesterday, I talked about how I got a new wing man because my old wing man basically forgot to be a wing man. She seemed excited to help me out but that was until 1:00 am. She sent me a text but I had passed out around 12. When I saw her name on my phone I kind of got butterflies because I was hoping maybe the guy liked me or thought I was cute or cool idk… But NO. Instead she told me they KISSED.
Yep… She told me it was “random” and they were caught or walked in on by my old wing man, her roommate, and another friend of ours. She said she felt bad and she wanted me to hear it from her because she felt the people that walked in blew it out of proportion… First of all, you had ONE JOB. And not that he’s my boyfriend and I’m jealous but you’re my friend. No, we’re not besties but we’re close enough to the point where I trusted you enough to bring me up in a conversation with my crush. She had told my roommate (which is also her bestie) that there was nothing she could do because he had her pinned down and his hand was around her. First, if it was rape you should go to someone ELSE about that but obviously that wasn’t the case which brings me to my second question. If it got that far to the point where he was on top of her and they were going at it, God knows they probably wouldn’t have stopped if they weren’t interrupted which makes the whole thing worse. IF you felt that what you were doing was wrong, you could have stop it before it got that far but you didn’t. Now people are like “you didn’t get the full story”, “she feels like all her friends hate her”, “she’s so upset”… like first off, there’s no story to tell and secondly imagine how I feel.. I can’t blame the guy because I haven’t talked to him yet and he doesn’t know I’m interested. Unlike all of my friends I’ve experienced tons of rejection and I’ve been made fun of people I’ve had crushes on. So to come to college to get away from it only to run into it just sucks a lot. Especially when it involves someone you considered a friend… Cheers to another sign that I should stay single for the rest of my life.
A Pissed & Single College Student